You will all think I am crazy but here is my setup: On Outlook/Exchange, I use my calendar and have full access to my partner's shared calendar. On my Treo, I use activesync to sync my calendar. But I also have keydates installed and can therefore see my partner's calendar on my treo (with keydates) updated via hotsync.

I have not found any other way to be able to see my partner's calendar on my Treo and NOT have his alarms go off for me. If anyone has any suggestions, I am all ears. Now onto my question:

My wife has a Treo 755p as well and wanted to beam me some events. My 755p would only allow me to accept them into the keydates calendar and not the built-in (which is what I use for my own schedule). Why is it doing that and how do I change it?

Thanks, in advance, for any suggestions/advice.