1) How do I remove the list (or individual) of names/contacts in default Messages "To:"

They appear when cursor is at "To:" & you press the center button.

2) On another topic, pls recommend me a profile applications. Profile eg Nokia's Profile. Would like to put my Phone/SMS alerts into Mute or lower volume alerts for a specific time. After this time the alerts volumes will revert to original settings. Butler/PhoneTechnician with all their goodness do not have this covered.