I have made progress. We got the SSL cert on the exchange server, we sent it to my phone to my yahoo address, i opened the attachment and it saved it in a certificate manager and asked me if I wanted to trust, I said always. Now I have "Exchange" listed in my list of email accounts, but only my outbox is there. how might i get my inbox and other folders i want to sync?
I merged your "Exchange Help" and your "More Exchange Help" Threads.
It would have been more of a forum courtesy to not have started a new thread.