Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Results 1 to 20 of 43
  1. Liv
    Liv is offline
    Liv's Avatar
    Posts
    73 Posts
    Global Posts
    74 Global Posts
       #1  
    Just got dumped last night by my boyfriend of four years.

    We were serious.
    We were talking about marriage.

    Just out of the blue, bam - he dumps me.

    I know this is probably for the best, but it does not mean it does not hurt.

    Eh. Rawwr.

    Feel free to send Starbuck's White Chocolate Mochas my way for comfort.
  2. #2  
    Sorry to hear that. I hope this doesn't mean you need to find another state to hang your hat. But, if you're looking, I hear there are some foyne mens in SoCali.
  3. #3  
    Quote Originally Posted by hoovs
    But, if you're looking, I hear there are some foyne mens in SoCali.
    No. There's me.

    And then there's everyone else...
    MaxiMunK.com The Forum That Asks, "Are You Not Entertained?"

    Remember: "Anyone that thinks the Treo should just work right out of the box, shouldn't own a Treo..."
  4. #4  
    Quote Originally Posted by Liv
    Just got dumped last night by my boyfriend of four years.

    We were serious.
    We were talking about marriage.

    Just out of the blue, bam - he dumps me.

    I know this is probably for the best, but it does not mean it does not hurt.

    Eh. Rawwr.

    Feel free to send Starbuck's White Chocolate Mochas my way for comfort.
    Either he wasn't that serious, or you skeered him off with the ball and chain talk.

    At any rate, go on, spill some dirt on the *******.
    MaxiMunK.com The Forum That Asks, "Are You Not Entertained?"

    Remember: "Anyone that thinks the Treo should just work right out of the box, shouldn't own a Treo..."
  5. #5  
    Quote Originally Posted by Insertion
    No. There's me.

    And then there's everyone else...
    Of course, not everyone's into inter-species dating. But I will say that aside from the shedding, poo flinging and incessant self-aggrandizement teH Munk's probably a great catch!

    Don't worry, Munk, I got your back.
  6. #6  
    Quote Originally Posted by hoovs
    Of course, not everyone's into inter-species dating. But I will say that aside from the shedding, poo flinging and incessant self-aggrandizement teH Munk's probably a great catch!

    Don't worry, Munk, I got your back.
    Thank you. I owe you a Double Double, or a Tommy's.
    MaxiMunK.com The Forum That Asks, "Are You Not Entertained?"

    Remember: "Anyone that thinks the Treo should just work right out of the box, shouldn't own a Treo..."
  7. #7  
    Quote Originally Posted by Liv
    ...Feel free to send Starbuck's White Chocolate Mochas my way for comfort...
    Liv,
    You're better off without that sorry SOB. Over that yummy W.C Mocha, make a list of all the "short commings" the Ex had. Soon, you will realize how much better off you are.

    I also highly recommend the Cinnamon Dolce Latte's from StarBucks too
    CGordonn
    SPCS Treo 700p
    Virginia Beach, VA but home will
    always be Honolulu, HI
  8. #8  
    I'll take a Cinnamon Spice White Mocha, if we're making this the Starbuck's thread.
    MaxiMunK.com The Forum That Asks, "Are You Not Entertained?"

    Remember: "Anyone that thinks the Treo should just work right out of the box, shouldn't own a Treo..."
  9. #9  
    Quote Originally Posted by Liv
    Just got dumped last night by my boyfriend of four years.
    So for the month, you up a Treo and down a BF....sounds like a fair trade. All kidding aside, tha's never fun....the next two weeks will be rough as you find yourself unable to think about everything else but if ya can ignore the urge to chase my money says he'll be back begging before Perry gets his 700p. And then you tell him you'll take him back if he gets you a 700p....wait a week , dump his ***.
  10. #10  
    Quote Originally Posted by Insertion
    Thank you. I owe you a Double Double, or a Tommy's.
    Mmm, french fries animal style! I'm convinced that there are few foods outside of a Waffle House that are faster or more effecient methods of producing arterial plaque. But I do love them so.
  11. #11  
    Well, coming from the standpoint of someone who was married and got "dumped" a year ago (and still no end in sight for the divorce)...at least he didn't leave you for your cousin. (Turns out you can't work hard for your family anymore without getting crapped on by your selfish wife)

    /vent
    <a href="http://www.wapswap.com/">
    <img src="http://wapswap.com/blog/images/logo_only.jpg" border="0"></a>
    built for easy acess
  12. #12  
    blind-sided. that sucks. although it is better than being STUCK with someone. i have a single friend who says "i'm happy that i'm not unhappily married."
    it's not a crack house, it's a crack home.
  13. #13  
    bigboy and kabuto have some words to remember. Ending four years sucks but its better than ending it after the wedding... worse still after kids. And the worst thing you can do is probably the hardest thing not to do... that is, ask yourself what you did wrong. There's plenty of time for that; but for now:

    Always look on the bright side of life.
    [Everyone now]
    Always look on the light side of life.
    [whistle people!]

    If life seems jolly rotten,
    There's something you've forgotten,
    And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
    When you're feeling in the dumps,
    Don't be silly chumps.
    Just purse your lips and whistle. That's the thing.
    And...

    Always look on the bright side of life.
    [Come on, you know the words]
    Always look on the right side of life,

    For life is quite absurd
    And death's the final word.
    You must always face the curtain with a bow.
    Forget about your sin.
    Give the audience a grin.
    Enjoy it. It's your last chance, anyhow.
    So,...

    Always look on the bright side of death,
    Just before you draw your terminal breath.

    Life's a piece of s t,
    When you look at it.
    Life's a laugh and death's a joke. It's true.
    You'll see it's all a show.
    Keep 'em laughing as you go.
    Just remember that the last laugh is on you.
    And...

    Always look on the bright side of life.
    Always look on the right side of life.
    Always look on the bright side of life!

    Just thought you'd like a little comic relief.
  14. Liv
    Liv is offline
    Liv's Avatar
    Posts
    73 Posts
    Global Posts
    74 Global Posts
       #14  
    Thanks all for the kind words

    Yeah, I am getting over it.

    And nooo didn't scare him with the "ball and chain" talk, he was the one who always brought it up. I was really careful about the "scare away" factor. I think he just - changed his mind. Who knows.

    So I am single, and once again enjoying another coffee and playing with my treo. Woo Hoo.
    I think I am going to go comfort shopping.

    Nope, won't be moving to a different state - can't Stuck in Tennessee for school. Blah.
  15. #15  
    Liv,
    Let me just preface by saying there aren't enough of you female Treo freaks out there (LT you are also way included in this)

    However, Hoovs brings up a great point. I was just talking to my cousin tonite (married/divorce 2 times) and I told her that they should make it just as hard to get into marriage as it is to get out. But that wouldn't make the government as much money. Believe me, if they taxed divorces or offered divorce licenses, people would think twice.

    That said, it is MUCH better to find out that it wasn't right before hand. I have an almost 4 year old daughter who she is trying to keep from me and it has not been pretty. When I tell you this, I mean it with my whole heart. NOTHING will keep me from my daughter, which is why I have dealt with more bull**** in this divorce than I really need to. Most judges think that 3 days out of 14 are enough. Bull****. I need my daughter as much as she needs me.

    Now that all of that is off of my chest, I will say that I normally try not to ***** this much. We all need to thank God thank we woke up this morning and are privvy to play with such devices as the TREO that give us so much pleasure (and pain)

    LOL
    <a href="http://www.wapswap.com/">
    <img src="http://wapswap.com/blog/images/logo_only.jpg" border="0"></a>
    built for easy acess
  16. kvcobra's Avatar
    Posts
    446 Posts
    Global Posts
    450 Global Posts
    #16  
    ... Whee-whoo [pause], whe-who whe-who whe-who.
    Always look on the bright side of life.
    Whee-whoo [pause], whe-who whe-who whe-who...
    ... Als sie mich holten, gab es keinen mehr, der protestieren konnte.
    ... Then they came for me, and there was no one left to speak out.
    -- Rev. Martin Niemöller

    Clie T615C + Nokia 6360 (SunCom) --> Treo 650 (Sprint) --> Treo 755p (Sprint) + BlackBerry 7130e (VZW)
    Palm (aka Plantronics) Ultralight Wireless headset
    Helix Holster
  17. #17  
    On a quick side note, what part of TN are you in? I have a sore spot in my heart for TN as I got engaged in Memphis once (to one woman) and married someone from Memphis. Funny how things turn out.
    <a href="http://www.wapswap.com/">
    <img src="http://wapswap.com/blog/images/logo_only.jpg" border="0"></a>
    built for easy acess
  18. iramike's Avatar
    Posts
    506 Posts
    Global Posts
    507 Global Posts
    #18  
    Being dumped sucks! I was with someone for 2 years, I thought happy married and she cheats on me with my best friend in my own house, and I am sure, it my own bed.

    It crushed me, sent me drinking and just not being the happy geek I once was. Bars and bar hopping is not me. I am of course paraphrasing how hard it was, the sleepless nights that stretched on for weeks and going to work trying to be sober.

    Once you begin to see that things could have been worse and relax, enjoy your life and move on, it does get better. I didn't think it would, it did. I look at it this way I am glad we didn't have kids cause I know my ex would have fought me tooth and nail for custody, and it would have been all or nothing.

    In the end, I got lucky, a lovely lady from my past who used to work for me walked into my life, she also was coming out of a bad break up. We helped each other get over that, and realize how good life can be, and we moved on, I am proud to say we each are proud parents of our own Treo 650's, and I might turn my voice line into a 700w and carry both just for giggles. So it does get better, it just takes time and you got to keep your chin up, and stay away from whiskey and bars.......
    My Cart
    Wireless Addict


    The only reason why Chuck Norris grows a beard is because he is trying to compete with Bruce Campbell's chin, which can break diamonds.
  19. #19  
    Quote Originally Posted by iramike
    Being dumped sucks! I was with someone for 2 years, I thought happy married and she cheats on me with my best friend in my own house, and I am sure, it my own bed.

    It crushed me, sent me drinking and just not being the happy geek I once was. Bars and bar hopping is not me. I am of course paraphrasing how hard it was, the sleepless nights that stretched on for weeks and going to work trying to be sober.

    Once you begin to see that things could have been worse and relax, enjoy your life and move on, it does get better. I didn't think it would, it did. I look at it this way I am glad we didn't have kids cause I know my ex would have fought me tooth and nail for custody, and it would have been all or nothing.

    In the end, I got lucky, a lovely lady from my past who used to work for me walked into my life, she also was coming out of a bad break up. We helped each other get over that, and realize how good life can be, and we moved on, I am proud to say we each are proud parents of our own Treo 650's, and I might turn my voice line into a 700w and carry both just for giggles. So it does get better, it just takes time and you got to keep your chin up, and stay away from whiskey and bars.......

    Though in some moderation Whiskey and bars can be therapeutic...for a coupla hours at least
    <a href="http://www.wapswap.com/">
    <img src="http://wapswap.com/blog/images/logo_only.jpg" border="0"></a>
    built for easy acess
  20. #20  
    FWIW, the key = perspective. You will be as hurt and as crushed as you tell yourself. It is a fact that he left, without your permission. It is also a fact that in doing so, he left the field wide open for someone TRULY worthy of your attention. Grieve the death of that relationship, as you grow stronger and wiser. But also celebrate, for I promise you, the best is yet to come. Perfect, because you deserve absolutely nothing less than the best, and did not have it. I've been happily married now for 21 years. It damn near killed me emotionally, etc to leave my first husband. But that pain ultimately gave way to heaven on earth, in the form of this hubby, truly my best friend.

    Then again, he ain't a gadget fan, but hey, he's still my Mr. Right... most days anyway! :-)
Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast

Posting Permissions