As i got some feedback with a screenshot not showing any grafix, here are screenshots of how the two relevant path look on my TP. Hope that helps.
usr/palm/applications/com.palm.tasks:
This is the path i copied all the stuff to AFTER .ipk install
/media/cryptofs/apps/usr/palm/applications/com.palm.tasks
This is the path the IPK installed itself to
This perhaps not needed anymore and perhaps there is a way to directly install to /usr/palm by editing the IPK after packaging - any Pro would can enlighten me?